FAMILY?

pada saat anda menyebutkan kata keluarga.kata apa yang akan terlintas? KENYAMANAN?KEDAMAIAN?KASIH YANG TULUS,SALING MENYANYANGI DAN TAK MEMPERMASALAHKAN PERBEDAAN?
itulah yang dinamakan keluarga. satu tempat dimana seseorang dapat bernaung,bercerita dan membagi segalanya,sebuah keluarga dalam pikiran saya adalah sekumpulan orang yang saling mengasihi,berusaha melengkapi satu sama lain.. tidak membedakan..keluarga

kadang manusia terlalu angkuh untuk mengakui itu semua.manusia sudah merasa cukup benar dan baik untuk mengakui keberadaan orang lain,HUMAN ALWAYS WALK WITH THEIR OWN EGO
kadang manusia tak menyadari yang dilakukan akan menyakiti perasaan yang lain bahkan dalam keluarga

Tulisan ini ditujukan kepada mereka yang merasa sudah terlalu SEMPURNA dan mengenyampingkan keberadaan orang diluar kesempurnaan mereka.

Saya tak akan menyebutkan ini semua adalah andil Tuhan,ini semua adalah sifat biologis manusia yang masih memandang semua dari PERBEDAAN DAN PERSAMAAN

semoga mereka yang membaca dapat merenungi arti sebuah keluarga.

this write is dedicated for my Dad at heaven,,,YOU ARE THE ONE THAT I LOVED and GOD HAS TAKEN YOU AWAY FROM ME...

A STORY OF AN EAGLE

An American Indian tells about a brave who found an egg of an eagle's nest and then put it on chicken. Eaglet grew up with a brooding the chicks.
All his life, the eagle thinks that he is a chicken, and he did all the things done by the chickens. Garbage or scratching the ground to search for grains of rice and insects to eat. Crowed. Flapping its wings like a chicken and tried to fly but never higher than half a foot from the ground (and that's just like a chicken when flying).
Years passed. The eagle was now growing old. One day, he saw a bird with a very impressive deep in the cloudy sky. Fly with the majesty and graceful in the strong gusts of wind currents, soaring in the sky with fluttering wings strong and golden.
"Birds are very beautiful!" Said the eagle to his neighbor. "The bird is that?"
"That is an eagle - the leader of the birds," said a neighbor. "But do you ever think about it. You can never be like him. "
Then the eagle that did not ever try to think about returning, and he died with the thought that he was a chicken.

Friends today we learned one thing:
Sometimes we unknowingly, what makes us fail in life are the result of word of those around us who tried to convince us that we 'can not' do a thing. So there's nothing wrong if we are to be 'deaf' to the pessimistic sayings maze. Try to keep an open mind, keep trying and thinking that 'I CAN'.

your oppinion?

someone that close to me just asked me.. shan, what do you think about a woman who wanna have a child from a man but she dont want to married that man? for what reason said?

wow... maybe this is the impact of a woman independency, a phase at woman's life that doesn't really care about man's rule at a marital instituion..

I appreciate her point of view.. but until know.. I really dont know why she asked me that question?

it's 8:30 AM. I already awake. dont know why every morning I always wake up exactly 8AM. I consider that as a gift. at least i dont need someone to wake me up with radically barbarian's ways..

just for the example. my cousin. Every morning his father came to his room and yelling at him... and still he cant wake up on time which is 8AM. yesterday my uncle came in to his room and yelling at him like crazy.. in a minutes, that room turned in to a mess..

and the day after that? no change.. my cousin still counting on someone else for wake him up.

I take a lesson from that, NEVER SPOILED YOUR CHILDREN WHEN THEY ARE STILL A KIDS.. YOU WILL HAVE A BIG TROUBLE IN THE FUTURE..

-----thanks for my parents who teached me how wake up early in the morning----

sore yang aneh di makassar

like the usual afternoon, time show17.43 WITA and here am I. at my uncle store. sit like a dumbass dude and dont know what to do. I think I miss my mom and bro.
This annoying condition of mine is getting worst thanks to my health.
I miss my hometown.. I miss my friends. I miss my old life

my first write

greetings..
this is my first words.. It's gonna be a lot start from now.. this is gonna be my place for speak off.